High-Performance Habits: Daily Practices of Successful Creators
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Shawn Buttner: [00:00:00] If you've ever worked on a project
creatively
or professionally in a business setting, then
a lot of times
you might experience burnout,
because you're not focused
on sustainable success and growth, you don't take the breaks that you need to stay productive.
you suppress your own voice in a lot of ways
to please
the crowds, you actively
start hating
the work that you're doing, or
your mental impact, Too many
content creators and artists burn out because
they're not focused on sustainable success and growth.
And if
you've ever worked on a project
in for your business or for somebody else,
this also relates to you, People generally don't take
the breaks that they
need to keep their energy up, to keep the productivity coming.
They suppress their creative voices
to please others
or the crowd.
They
actively start hating their work because
the deadlines too short,
or they're
[00:01:00] arbitrary, or
they just aren't feeling connected
to what they're doing anymore.
Their mental health gets impacted
in today's episode of The Meaningful Revolution, we will talk about these problems and what you
can do about them.
Let's
begin. (intro)
Hey everyone. It's Shawn Today on the Meaningful Revolution, we
have a solo episode here where we're going
to talk a little
bit on how the Meaningful Revolution brand is shifting that means for you, the listener, and
just some really good value
for y'all today.
When I first started
the Meaningful Revolution podcast
about two
years ago now,
which is
insane, I was just following a thread,
an artistic thread of, I like
talking
with people one on one.
If
we talk to people about what
they're
super passionate about,
that'll be a [00:02:00] compelling conversation. It'll inspire people to maybe do a little bit more of their purposeful work or their meaningful
pursuits
in
their day to day life. And maybe we'll pull some
secrets of the trade or what
has helped them
achieve more in their
space, right?
Or what makes their space so cool. So
personally, this
was a way
for to network
with people
that I admire or to get talking to people as an introvert so that
could help my coaching practiceso that, that was part of it.
So it's to, to connect
with people I admire, to maybe
find collaborations and start building relationships to help my coaching business.
As we've evolved and as
I've started
talking to more
artists,
more
authors, more course creators, people that run small businesses
and agencies,
I've noticed
a shift in that.
Everyone is creating, right?[00:03:00]
And
as you're listening right now, you might not identify yourself as
a creator, but if you've
ever done any type of writing,
if you write
emails, you're a creator, in my opinion. If
you do YouTube videos, if
you write books, if you write articles, if you do newsletters, if you do anything where
you're taking knowledge
from your head and putting it
into a digital format
or physical format.
You are a
creator,
and this mindset, this shift means
that if
you are a creator, we all face
some
common hiccups
in our progress, and how successful we are
in
life and
with our craft or with our work. And so I think the meaningful revolution.
Really, to me,
is the collective action all these creators are taking to make the world a better And so that's what my Meaningful Revolution
is. I don't talk [00:04:00] about this
enough, and I realize I've been asked this a couple of times outside of the podcast.
What is your Meaningful Revolution?
You ask people this all the time. And I struggle to really articulate it, right? It's
a feeling of wanting to help people
and serve,
but
ultimately I want to help influence creators to be more productive, to be more performing, to be more effective in what they do, because we can help create the world
in the
way that
needs toto be
better So that's my meaning
for Relish. I want to help inspire other creators
to go out there, do their craft, and add positivity to the world. And I'd love
a million creators, to have interacted with me and felt like,
Hey,
Shawn and the Meaningful Revolution really changed
how
I thought about
the work I was doing,
what it means out in the world,
and how I'm going about doing it in a way that is [00:05:00] sustainable. So that's the big idea today, right? As we're talking through some of these common scenarios that prevent people from creating in general, the idea is,
These are just habits,
right? And as habits, either the habits on how
we talk to ourselves, the mindsets, or the
things that we're actually doing out there, they can be changed.
And the
fact that they can't be
changed should be really exciting because it means you're not stuck. If you feel frustrated or you feel overwhelmed in the work that you're doing, changing your habits
will
how you relate to those things. And that is exciting to me. I hope
you find it as exciting
too, because as
soon as you realize as a creator that you have more agency over
the things that are going on in your life than you think,
You
can start making decisions to start shifting, right?
And this could
be,
you have an idea, I want to write a book [00:06:00] on how to knit
sweaters for
kittens, right? Maybe that's a niche, or maybe it's just, not something you're super interested in
And you're like, I don't know how to write that book. I don't know how to knit,
there's a lot of inputs that go into
this.
to inspire you to start exploring. Those habits
and those
skills and
the things that you
need do to start
making that a reality, because as we know from the internet, cats are a thing and they really do sell.
Everyone's
interested in cat videos and dog videos, so maybe that's the second book is, Puppies. but
ultimately, if you have
that idea, what's your plan? To start experimenting and having fun, to start making strides to, to Get more proficient as a knitter and more proficient as a writer so that you can write a book on how to make sweaters for That's, you know, hopefully one part of the audience here.
Second [00:07:00] part
is people that have an idea, you've written a book, you've written
you have an Etsy store for the
sweaters for kittens that you're selling, right?
And you want
to
reach more people. You want have more
impact with
it. And you're burning out while you're doing the
work, right?
So you can only maybe knit, one kitten sweater a week. And Etsy, there's
a high demand for it.
You really need to
be doing like five. So how do you
grow your team? How do you
maybe do the work more effectively? Maybe you start researching how to have a kitten sweater factory so
you can, handle the uptick in sales
or
just get noticed
more. So there's a lot of different problems
if you have created something
and you're trying to grow it. And then,
those are people that are experts at it that are just trying to become more efficient.
even more efficient than,
you have something to try to get a girl, you have a
[00:08:00] successful product, you have.
a successful idea out there
in the world.
And now it's, how do you
form collaborations? How do you
strategically
think, how can I
grow this in a way that is exponential?
and
how can I do it in less time? And how can I do it with, maybe less resources that, that you
need. So
that's. The general idea now
for the brand.
And. I'll still be interviewing
people about what they nerd out about.
I still think that thread
from an artistic view, from the
podcast is a
great thing.
but I'm hoping to interview
with
a more creator focused perspective so we can highlight what struggles
people have, we
can highlight how they
overcame them, We can highlight why they nerd out about
the thing they nerd out, and leave you each episode with some things to think about to either
start your creative journey, you start
your side gig
[00:09:00] or grow your side gig into your full gig or to create a movement out in the world. So I'm
really excited
for this. This
feels very aligned towards that meaningful revolution that I have to help a million creators
create a positive
force out the world
to
to
facilitate the collective action of creators and
changing
the world for good
in meaningful way for each of us. So
I hope you continue to
be along
with me for that journey. so stay tuned as we
flesh that out. And by we, I mean me because it's just me in So that's the update
for the podcast
right now.
And I know I tend to do these probably once a season ish. because I've been trying to think through publicly what this means.
this
feels like I've settled on this going
So
if you're listening to this, hearing it hot off the press, it's been months and months of journaling and note taking
and talking with
people
to
make
this [00:10:00] happen. So if
you were one of the people that I've talked through with this, you know who
you are, thank you so much.
I'm going to show some
appreciation for some of y'all in the audience,
Jim. Ashley,
Yasmin,
I know I'm going to forget
people as I'm, I didn't have this
part
planned.
like, I'll I'll just, appreciate the audience. And then I'm like, Oh, I should thank some specific people. So Brian,
Aaron, Min,
the list goes on and on. So Thank you all for your input,
your
support. and for making this with that said, let's get into a couple of
Questions
as a creator
you might be asking yourself or you might
ask
yourself as you move forward and we'll talk about some
habits that might help you
then excel in that.
Okay,
let's jump into it.
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So the first question
most
creators
I think have at some point
in their career, and hopefully you're having this
conversation
with earlier than later, which is why we're starting
with this is what habits
do you need to succeed? But more importantly, like,
how do you define success for
yourself?
Is it, I want to create a business
that's self
sustaining? Is it, I want to reach a couple million people?
Is
it, I just want to find my tribe? I want to put out the videos of me
knitting cat sweaters and find the five other people
on
the planet that are super hyper
focused on it, like me, so we can connect trade
sweater
tips
for cat kittens and pictures
and all that kind of stuff, right? I'll say that.
how you define success is
going
to define your mental health as a creator
as you move forward.
and [00:14:00] I would definitely think that, or so I think,
think,
and from my
perspective,
especially as a high performance coach, it's How are you consistently growing past your normal level of energy,
of
output, of creativity, of quality, of
quantity, all those different things.
How are you constantly growing those from your baseline without
damaging your health, your well being, or your So, can you
double your creative output this next
week and still, have your family and friends
love you, so can you double your creative outputs? and Still have the health
to then enjoy all
of the windfall from it later
so many
people in
the creative space and you'll see people quit [00:15:00] YouTube
channels.
You'll see people struggle
with
trying to write
and release a book and, giving up the craft because
they haven't found how to do it in a sustainable way. not, if you go three days without
sleep, without eating, just trying to create a YouTube video
or just
writing your book, you're going to have a crash.
You're going to sleep for two days. You're going to feel miserable while you do it. And for so many people, Creating is hard. It doesn't have to be miserable.
And what
do I mean by that? it can be something that's pushing you
beyond your
current set of skills,
your comfort level, how you think about
yourself and
the things that you're capable of.
That's all
good, right?
But
if it's pushing
you too much
beyond That's when you start asking yourself the question like,
there's is
there more to life than this? Or, how did I get myself
here, right? Why
am I on this constant rat race[00:16:00]
of trying to release
50, full length podcasts every week? I'm always failing, I'm always beating up on myself because I'm not
putting out the
quality that I want, and I'm not matching
the quantity that
I want.
as an example. So why am I even doing this? Why is this even worth
it? If you get
to that point of
frustration or where you're just like, why am I doing this?
You haven't really thought about
this question of how do you define success
for yourself?
And
the great news is
you know, doing some
very simple high performance habits can get you back on track.
things we'll talk about here
in
a quick minute, but,
so the first thing that, as a creator
or in your business, first question I would love to ask
you is what habits do you have
that
are helping you sustain your creative [00:17:00] outputs,
helping
your forward momentum?
take a
quick minute or pause this if you're listening, or watching
and take
a minute or two to write that
down. Second question is what habits are hurting your relationships, hurting your health, hurting your
sense of joy and connectedness to
your work every day. And so many creators don't ask themselves
this second question.
And
part of it is if you just have clarity about the
habits that are helping you. or hurting you, you can now start to make educated and, impactful changes to those behaviors that will help serve the longevity of your career. And that's ultimately what we want. We want you to be creating, putting out good for the rest of your life, if you
choose, or until you are
on to the next thing, right?
When you're ready
to be like, I did everything I could on this topic. It took
it as far as
I could. I advanced[00:18:00]
the world while doing it. Time
for the next thing. That's what
we want.
We don't want you
to
be like, I'm
so overwhelmed. I don't think I can
do this, I'm just
going to give up before that idea has had a chance to breathe and have its full impact out in the That's what I want for each and every And I hope you feel that and I hope you believe that you can do it because again, it's sustainable habits that can really
help you.
outside of the habits
that are
serving
your sustainable growth and putting your creativity out there or
hurting that other habits to consider are what are the habits you have to keep you
on track
and get you back
on
when life happens, right?
so
much of.
there's a status quo of
every day is happening normally. You're moving forward, going and some life happens,
right?
A family member dies,
God
forbid.
There's an accident and your car's wrecked and now you have to [00:19:00] figure out how to
manage all that, there's a fire or your electricity gets shut off or.
who knows? There's an endless amount
of things that life could throw at you as a
curveball that you now have to
address, right?
And so when
you are knocked off of
that status quo
of
the things that
are serving you and, you know, not doing
the things that are not, so when you get
knocked out of that
status quo, how do you get back on track?
Do you have habits to be like, when I'm angry because somebody, nearly hit me
trying to cross the crosswalk
yesterday, which
really happened to me. How do
you calm yourself down and get back to a productive space in a way that's authentic to not
just papering
over emotions, but like I was pretty angry about it, but sat out in the sun, did some journaling,
did some
breathing exercises
to release
the stress
and back to doing my
day stuff.
I went so. [00:20:00] This is the power of habits and we'll talk about
some specific
high performance habits coming up
but I just
wanted you
to take
an
inventory of some of the habits that
will be helping you as a creator as you movesuper
love that. If you are, I'd love
to hear what your
habits are too
so you can always go to ShawnButtner.
com or email
support at ShawnButtner. com I'd love to hear your habits and we'll cheer you on in the next
episode or two of
the podcast if you do that. So
please go and to support at ShawnButtner. com with what habits really work for you and the habits that you use
to get back on track
so we can celebrate you.
and I'm just curious.
check that out. All right.
first kind of
major area of where creators
get off track is.
How do you get back on
track after
disappointment, right? So some people are doing the [00:21:00] work, they're sweating, there's tears, there's blood even sometimes, as we create, and it doesn't seem like
it's connecting, it's or it's not getting traction out
in the marketplace, right?
And this can be very crushing, right? You pour So much effort of trying to make
the perfect newsletter,
the perfect
YouTube video,
the perfect
podcast.
And,
you're like, this one is gonna be the one that everyone loves.
There's gonna be
a bajillion. types of subscribers and likes. I'm
gonna have sponsorship deals, and you build up this
whole thing in your head
And you release it.
and you stare at the zero views
forever, right? It never changes. And
youI've been in this part of my career as a coach and creator of content to support my coaching business. Even the podcast, you
at times it feels,
it has felt like, you know, It should be reaching more
people, [00:22:00] right?
I should be more impactful with it. And what I'll caution
you is, all of that I just said is a comparison and an expectation, right? of external validation,
right? So let's talk about this
idea of intrinsic versus extrinsic validation, right? It's much
healthier and
will sustain you a lot more if you can
focus on Why you're
doing and why it's important to you versus
what hoping
to get out of the And I see creators do this all the time
in that,
like I posted the post on social media and nobody engaged with
it. Like, why?
it's that's
the bad way to think about it. Because it's
Assuming that the algorithm is in your favor,
it's assuming that
everyone you want to reach is available and sees the thing that you put out, right? So There's so much content
on social media, third of the audience might see it?
And that's why [00:23:00] people post a bunch of times a day. that expectation of this is
going
to pick up steam. It's going to be the thing that breaks me out and changes my life
is That expectation that will lead you to doubt yourself
when doesn't happen, right? And so much of being a creative is, at least in my opinion, doing the things that interest you
and following that artistic instinct that you have. And not caring other people like it or not.
you chances are there are other people
that will love the thing that you're doing
and when they see it,
they'll connect with it.
But
there's a lot of faith
andno, this idea is interesting to me and
other people will find it interesting. So
that's the idea
of the reward for me
for creating a
podcast like this know that this might help you in your creative career. whatever
your creation is right?
And
I can trust that.
[00:24:00] and you can like it or you cannot like it.
And as soon as I hit
publish on this episode and it's
out in the world, it's out in the world
and how it does is up to the gods,
So
again that's a way
for me to continue going, right? And that's, That was whole
thread here is how you continue going, right? and so You definitely want to focus on intrinsic reasons why you're doing what you're doing versus that extrinsic
validation. yeah, that
will be healthier for you over the Another way to
look at it
too is, you 50 million people with a post in the next week.
And
release the post and only 150 people see it, right? The issue isn't that wasn't
a successful And
in
this case, it could have been your most successful post. the
issue is [00:25:00] you had zero and then you had the big goal at, you
50 million people. And there was no
points of celebration
along the way.
And so I was listening
to a
Jake Klaus podcast a while ago.
He released a new product. It was his most successful product. And as he was debriefing what happened, he shared this really interesting insight of this is the most successful product launch I have done. And I didn't
feel like it was successful because it didn't
meet the number that I put to it.
And I hadn't
had small, I didn't have the
milestone of if it breaks this as the most successful product launched,
like that's something to celebrate.
That's That's something to be proud of.
So I hope that these
are illustrating to you that.
there's so much psychology you need to
focus on the intrinsic things. on the small ones that lead up to the big one that [00:26:00] you hope for and want. And just
being really clear on
why you're
doing what you're doing right? and
why you're doing.
More of this episode after a quick break. Hey there, aspiring entrepreneurs. Are you ready to take your business idea or mission to the next level? It can be overwhelming and costly to juggle a hundred different tools to operate your online business. So let me introduce to you Kajabi, the all in one platform that I use to run my podcasts, promote my coaching services, do email marketing, website, and more.
blog and more. So Kajabi has everything you need from website hosting to payment processing, and you can build a business that's responsive and agile to market demands. Plus, Kajabi offers excellent 24 7 customer support that I've used exclusively in my years of using this platform. It's [00:27:00] great. I love it.
And a supportive online community of over 25, 000 members along with access to live and on demand training. There's tons and tons of support in the Kajabi community. I personally use Kajabi and love how it simplifies running my business and podcast, and it's helped me save time to focus on what really matters, creating value for you and the podcast and my coaching client.
So if you're ready to take your business to the next level, go to www.seanbutner.com/kajabi to sign up for a free 30 day trial. Now, this is an affiliate. link. So if you use my link as a special bonus, you'll get a free one hour high performance strategy session where we'll go over your goals for your trial.
We'll help you get clear on what you're going after. Keep motivated through the 30 days so you can maximize the impact of this free trial. I [00:28:00] know you can do this. You got this. And the strategy session, all the support of Kajabi, the amazing all in one platform. is everything you need to get started or to amplify what you're already doing digitally.
So with that said, let's get back to the episode.
So what could you do
if you. feel disappointment in your craft in your connected to that external validation and it's not,
making you feel bad about yourself or you're so disappointed you didn't do the big thing even though it might have been your best thing yet. two
high
performance habits
here
to make sure that you are able to recover from disappointment.
the first.
I'm calling the physio ABCs, so your physiology, of course
with any of
this stuff,
make
sure you
talk
to your doctors
before you change anything. [00:29:00] I don't know your
exact
situation, but
high performance
literature in general,
says, are you moving your body every day? whether, intense exercises,
just
getting Are you getting outside,
getting sun on your
eyeballs? Are you getting enough sleep each night?
Are you hydrating? Are you eating
nutritious
foods, right? So just your basic health things, right? Move your body,
get enough sleep,
drink
enough water,
get outside sometime.
you know, these are the things that can help you
feel resilient or will make you less
resilient if they're missing from yourIs there
anything in that list that immediately sprung up for you? Oh, I need more sleep or oh, I don't drink water. I need to drink more water or oh, I never see
the Sun because I work
Deep in the dungeon
of my corporation or
in the basement of my house.
I need to work on that. [00:30:00] Whatever that is for you,
write that down or make a note
to do something about that in the next three days, right?
So just do one thing
that'll help your basic physiology be more resilient so that you can recover from disappointment
as it comes up.
The other thing is being very clear on your values, right?In High Performance Coaching, we talk a lot about
this three word exercise or
the three words that if you're living
into your best,
most courageous, most productive self, what would three words be that would describe
that person
that you're striving to be every day?
And, we phrase
it that way. So
What are your three words? what
comes to mind
for you? for me,
I
want to be
optimistic, as a coach, as a podcast host, as an interviewer, as a partner,
I want to be the [00:31:00] person that is hoping for better
future, right? That's how I
define It's not that things will turn out great. It's that I believe we can collectively change how things happen to us, to our families in the world, And so It's important as
a coach, because
so many times I'm cheering people on,if you are going through something really heavy, it's nice to have the optimistic person that isn't getting caught in
What
they did or what they said or how
shitty the whole
situation is but focused on
what are you going to do now to
move forward through and so many people love coaching for that but
so that's why
optimism is important to me and that's why it's one of my three
words,so I want,
I strive to be optimistic as much as possible, because it helps my career it helps
me succeed.
stay healthy in my mind
too, [00:32:00] especially when
things go bad. okay, this is really terrible.
There's be something funny that will laugh about it in a while. What do we got to do to get to where we got to go? What's the next steps? So optimism is important career and personally And so for each of these words for you,
do you hear what did? explain why it's important to
you personally,
to your
family, or.
To your community because that will give it some more teeth to sink
in. So if you're as optimistic. It's present, when I'm in session
with someone as a coach or I'm interviewing somebody
for this podcast, I really want to be in the moment for
you.
And I really want to be actively listening and.
Just showing
that I care, right? If you've ever been in a situation where you're talking
with someone, you can tell their mind is somewhere else. [00:33:00] That's like a pet peeve of
mine.it really grates at me where
it'sI'm not important enough for you to
address or be aware of.
And,
parents, I'm sure you get this
from your kids, and I'm sure your kids understand
this
from you when you are, there
and focused
and present and when your mind's wandering.
Um, so it's a simple,
like, as a,
relationship business that I'm in
showing
that you care is being present and So that's why that's
important to and creative, right?
A lot of times in career,
you have to
really be open and
curious about possibilities. And that's another great
thing about coaching is as
I talk through situations with my clients I can't judge
what's happening.
It's okay, like,
where can
we take this to move people forward? That's kind the creative aspect of that.
So that's why those at a very high level, those [00:34:00] three words are
important for me, optimistic, present,
and creative. What are your three that describe
the best
you
for your work,
for your art, for your interactions with people.
Uh, this is a
very powerful exercise that a lot of people have done and people have absolutely love this. And this will help you manage disappointment, right?
Because if I'm, you notice, right?
So
if I release a podcast and
nobody listens to it, being present on, okay, like I need to get that happened, right?
I can't feel bad about it and then bury my feelings by eating or something like that.
optimistically it's okay, I need to change something
on how
I formatted this or how I promoted it or how I'm collaborating with people.
And
so
I can take the agency
to make the changes and then you
get creative. okay, like. [00:35:00] What are the things I'm going to change? So those three words
keep me moving forward through disappointment. What are
your three words? And these are like three value words too, so like these three words
are applicable in any of the situations
further we're going to talk about, but it's such a powerful exercise.
What are your three words that
describe your best self? Why are they
important to you? I'm done
beating that dead horse.
Okay. All right. Second question here.
Is
how do you handle slow progress, right? So many creatives feel the pressure to
see immediate results. But when
that doesn't happen and progress is slow or non existent, like how do you handle that, right? In high performance, again, we talked a little bit about this at the
top of the episode. You need to focus on why you are
creating. Why is it necessary that you put this thing out there? out of your head, out [00:36:00] of your heart, and into the world, right? And it's so important to, to
find that for
yourself because the people
that succeed are the ones that are able to continue, right?
You can't fail until you say, I quit. Essentially, you're here, a
form of that or
out on the web,
out in the
world. Technically it's true,
but
so much of being a titan
of industry, so much
of being a high performer in a particular field or being a high performing athlete is having the endurance and perseverance to go through the tough things
to continue, right? It's just showing up
every day, being present
every day, and saying this is what I'm going after, this is how I want to show up, this is how I want to interact, and this is what I want to give [00:37:00] to the world,
and it's important to me because of
this, right?
The
other thing about handling slow progress is a lot of times
there's fear about not being successful or being financially
ruined
or
so many other fears that
are showing
up
that are
causing you to make money.
Instead of focusing on being creative and figuring out how to speed up your process
or progress, or reaching out for help,
you are stuck in
your fears and it becomes this whole miserable experience, right?
And
the enemy
of our meaningful revolutions is being miserable in
the process, right? You will not sustain
anything if you are miserable doing it.
And like too, you could run a marathon and be miserable running the marathon, but then
you finish, there's a payout of
accomplishment, of self respect,
of self pride that you finish that marathon.
It's
not that you do marathon training, get to the race, and quit [00:38:00] before you start running
the dang thing. That is
the marker that you completed it. and you're afraid that it's going hurt running 26.
I know that. I've struggled
with this a lot in my business.
and
the idea of
progress really again comes down to are you capable of doing this?
Are you worthy of
success? Those types
of things.
So high performance habit
here is
to identify those fears you might have also, right?
focus
on your necessity, first habit here. Second is the three fears exercises. like we know from performance studies, people generally have three different types of fears.
That is,
they have loss fear. That
if I start running a marathon,
I'm going to give up eating pizza,
and I'm
going to give up,
having time with people, or you're
going to lose something by doing the thing. if I continue to [00:39:00] create and pour my heart into making YouTube
videos or writing my book, I'm not going to be able to enjoy time.
with the kids or I'm not going to be able to take vacations or those types of
things. So
what are the loss fears you might be
feeling as you come up with
also
we have outcome fear, right?
If I finish the book
and release it and
it doesn't do well, is it even worth it? right? Where
you're fearing that it's, the grass is gonna be
If it doesn't reach a million people, is it even worth
it?So that's your, you're
focused on the outcome. You're fearing the outcome isn't
going to be what
you hope, right? Uh, third type of
fear is process.
That the act of sitting at
your computer for four hours every
day to write the book is going to be boring.
You're going to pull your hair out.
You're going, you're not going to be able to handle the actual
doing of the [00:40:00] What's great about
Each of these fears is, again,
if we're talking about that intrinsic and extrinsic motivators, like, why are you doing this for yourself? Again, what is necessary here?
Why are you doing this? Why is it necessary that you're doing this? Versus that external validation of
selling a
million Again, that'll help you. ground. And then
the question for each of these
types of fears you might have too is, what
do you gain
by moving through the fear?yeah, maybe if you write the book
and it doesn't sell a million
copies,
what you will gain is
you'll have a
finished book at the end of
it.
You'll
have
proven to yourself that you could do it and that you did do it
and
you can be proud. And then you can figure out the part of promoting and selling it. forward.
third main
bucket
that [00:41:00] we'll talk about today before
we wrap up, folks, is how do you handle competing interests creator?
I hope this has been helpful for you. This is have an outline and I'm riffing a little bit. There's a little bit format for these solo episodes, but I'm having a lot of fun.
I hope you are too.
So, First, it depends on what these competing interests are, right?
Is it obligations to
keep
a roof over your head? To pay the bills?
feed the kids,take care of the people around you,
those
are. Obligations and they're good obligations
and you shouldn't
really mess with those, right?
Um, they
should into your decision
making. I'm those are good ones. But
if your book or your
course or your YouTube channel is your side gig or hobby
and
your main job
is really demanding, how
do you manage those priorities? Or how do you
manage getting things done when you
have something pulling a lot of your attention, effort, and energy?
Or, every
creator I [00:42:00] know ends up.
Entering a phase where they just have too many ideas.
They want
to launch a community, start a newsletter, launch three podcasts, have,
15 different
products and
they're going to
market all this stuff. And you just get overwhelmed with opportunity, right? Maybe you have 50 different collaborations
you could do or interviews you could do.
Like
you get to
this point where
there's so many things you
could be doing. You're not.
dedicating focus and energy on one or
two things
that will really get you results.
And
so that can really,
throw you off,
throw your attention off the prize, the mainthird thing that causes a little
bit of overwhelm with these competing
interests is if you don't have
systems
to track
what you're doing, you don't have systems to handle incoming requests.
You don't have systems to actually do the work and see progress on that.
Or,
the fourth thing where people lose interest in their [00:43:00] topic but are afraid to give it up because
it's
you'll
see this in, YouTubers that start doing, like,
how to videos and then
want to switch into lifestyle, and that's just an example.
There are so many things
where you
start off doing one type
of thing or
on one topic
and you want to switch it up and
then you feel like
you're going to let your audience down. or that you can't
follow that thread that's pulling you. So what do you do in this You give yourself a little bit of grace and say okay, you're human,
you can have all these things.
you might, depending on what is overwhelming you,
what is causing this diffusion of your attention, you might need to
reprioritize,
you might need to
delegate some things, you might need to just get organized or develop processes,
so take some time to do some admin, or
sometimes you gotta be brave and just say, hey, let's do this. we're switching
things, right?
I did that at the top of this episode,[00:44:00]
saying we're switching the focus a little bit on this podcast to focus more on people that are creative, right?
And everyone's creative again, like I said, so
this is still applicable
to you. It's just a little bit of a
different shift, hoping to bring a little bit of different energy and more tight focus on how this is helpful. So depending on that, so
general productivity habits that
you can do from high performance is to, you know, prioritize
at least five minutes a day towards that meaningful pursuit or your craft.
right?
for me,
years ago, I wrote a book on how to get out of student debt.
And that was
a whole,
I could
do a whole podcast on
that process.
At the height of it, I was working at
a tech job. And uh, I would spend ten minutes on breaks, writing chapters
or going over outlines. I'd take my lunch break,
get out of the office
and [00:45:00] spend a half hour writing,
and that's how I got the first
couple of drafts of that ebook out carving small
parts of time
in my day and So
a little bit
effort applied over a whole year equals a lot of time. think you'd spent minutes every day, which has implications too. If
you do social media
for 10 minutes every day, it's a lot of time that you spent
scrolling and not engaging or creating. So, but that's first thing.
plan at least five minutes
to focus on your craft. Second thing, do your most
important thing as soon as you can in your work day,
each day. So
if.
you really
want to get some, um, progress on your creative endeavor. you know, do your morning routine, do
your breakfast,
hygiene, whatever.
The first five minutes you're going to do of work,
you're going to
spend
working on your craft. I'm going to
do one post I'm going to write a paragraph. I'm going to do [00:46:00] five bullet points, whatever it is, whatever is easiest for you to just accomplish
in five minutes,
right? Then.
you'll do the next
important thing.
And so for the first hour of your day, you want to be doing the highest priority things without engaging
in email, without engaging in social media, right?
If you can do that, if you can carve out,
do your first thing, the first hour,
work hour you have, you know, first five minutes on your creative thing, the most important things, that come up either on your day job or creatively get that done.
Don't look at your emails. Don't look at social medias. get that hour done,
you will find that your productivity increases so much. So, we covered a lot. This is a lot longer of a podcast
episode than I was planning.
to recap,
we talked about what habits you need to have to
succeed?
So we talked about reflecting on habits. We talked about how to get back on track after disappointment. If
you're putting stuff out it's not [00:47:00] connecting,
We talked about how handle slow progress
when you are not feeling like you're advancing
as quickly as you could have or should be
we
talked about,
how are you handling the competing interests in your life as a creator? So all that said, we talked about then five habits in that, right?
Again,
it's reflect
on your habits to come up with ABCs,
do that three word exercise,
Identify any fears in
that three fears framework
We talked about, and then that morning
productivity, do your number one thing for five minutes, the
first five minutes of your workday, and no email or social until that's Okay, so that is what we're talking about today. I hope
you loved this episode. of the Meaningful Revolution. I know I loved coming up with this
for you.
This
is feeling a little bit more focused and dedicated, but I'd
love to hear
what you guys think. So again,
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So
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This is going to
be a place for you to become a high performing creator.
I'm really excited about the journey we're going to take together. I'm very grateful that you're still listening if
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